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It’s like living in parallel Universes and yet you are breathing the same air, the same time is passing by…

The journey that we make is sometimes completely different than the one our loved ones make… sometimes the highest prove of love you can show somebody is to give them what they need… freedom to follow their own journey, to follow their dreams, to float like a bubble around you and yet so far away from you…

It’s not easy and it is definitely not the ideal way to show someone you love him or her THAT much… but to be honest, for me it was the only time I felt like I did it: I had my battles, my struggle, my questions and times of complete confusion, but in the end I finally learned to love another human being with all my heart without having the urgent need to be with that person anymore…

Missing him and… that’s it… not thinking further, not wanting further… not needing further… just…loving him, being happy for his happiness, but continuing on living with the same wild passion and deepness all the other experiences life is so kind to offer to me every single day on its silver plate…

It takes time, it takes a lot of time actually to be able to do that… at least in my case it took! But the magic about it is that when you finally learn to love someone like this, forever seems like NOW. Your heart is in the same place as it was years ago, only wiser, but also wilder than before… there is no time, there is no space between  you and him or her, and there is always a shiny, beautiful, warm place in your heart making you smile each time faith makes it happen for you both: to look into each other’s eyes one more time, grateful for the days when you used to melt carefree in the other one, for the fights you had and pushed you further in following and reaching each other’s dreams, for the moments you felt like going insane of not having him or her right next to you cause those moments made you the beautiful persons you are today…

Time stopped somewhere “a long time ago” and since then minutes, hours, weeks, months, years still feel like yesterday and if mutual, this type of connection will remain forever printed into each other’s soul, until death will indeed do you part…

Loveheimer

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