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There is this spread around the world idea that women might not be such good drivers comparing to men… to be honest, partially, I agree with it… there are some women that should better avoid the wheel and never touch it again…

But there are some who are really passionate about driving and also very good at it. I for example had the courage to drive alone more than 2000 km in a couple of days just because I liked driving very much. I am not really mad about speed, but I am not too slow either and I drive for pleasure… meaning, I enjoy it while respecting the “rules” also…

I noticed in time that when in love, men relate to a woman just like to their car. If they are into her, they are taking care of her, making sure every day that she is in the best shape ever, shining and smiley, BUT also they wanna make HER sure that they are the one sitting on the driver’s seat.

And here’s come the conflict with a woman like me. Almost always… don’t think I met until now a man to be intuitive enough to understand and accept the fact that I like driving too. Not all the time, not on daily basis, but maybe let’s say… when the man feels like taking a break, have a drink or two when going together to a party or he is too tired to focus on life, generally speaking.  It helps to have a partner able to take the wheel and drive him HOME safe. Sure… he can call a cab too, but I am pretty sure he won’t have wild, passionate sex with the driver of the taxi afterwards either or hold his hand in bed during the night, as a gesture of tenderness, love and feeling of security of having someone dear right next to him.

A woman like me is not made to be ruled, driven or controlled. A woman like me DOESN’T want to rule, control or drive either… even if the instinct is there and sometimes it tempts her, especially if she feels the man is weak enough and he has no idea how to deal with life issues… a woman like me is made to enjoy life with and right next to her. She can take care of her own shit, but she will expect the same from his side. When needed, of course, being there for each other is critically in order to build a healthy and strong relationship, based on love, trust and respect for each other.

But she doesn’t need you to baby sit her and even less to show her who’s the boss. Cause she will let you drive the car, yes and she will smile at you kind and wild from the right seat where you want her to ALWAYS stay, but right after, with all the risks included she will jump out of the car…

And that… “HONEY”, in my case… it’s a fact! 😊

Loveheimer

woman driving the car

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