The Land of MY NAKED Soul by Loveheimer

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All over the world there are people who deal with depression, with lack of love, with desperation and confusion after failed relationships, after marriages which didn’t work… there are men and women who still choose to live in these kind of relationships because they don’t see any way out or they don’t have any choice.
This book is not only a HOW TO get over those negative feelings, those fears, that sadness or pain and HOW TO reach the inner happiness that few people have the chance to reach it, but also it’s a LIGHT OF HOPE that it is possible to live (and not only to survive) and find love again… in us and around us… every single day we see the effects of the lack of love, but with this book you will finally understand that we have the possibility to find it again… to choose to be happy and that it is never too late for that…
 
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DRIVER’S SEAT

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There is this spread around the world idea that women might not be such good drivers comparing to men… to be honest, partially, I agree with it… there are some women that should better avoid the wheel and never touch it again…

But there are some who are really passionate about driving and also very good at it. I for example had the courage to drive alone more than 2000 km in a couple of days just because I liked driving very much. I am not really mad about speed, but I am not too slow either and I drive for pleasure… meaning, I enjoy it while respecting the “rules” also…

I noticed in time that when in love, men relate to a woman just like to their car. If they are into her, they are taking care of her, making sure every day that she is in the best shape ever, shining and smiley, BUT also they wanna make HER sure that they are the one sitting on the driver’s seat.

And here’s come the conflict with a woman like me. Almost always… don’t think I met until now a man to be intuitive enough to understand and accept the fact that I like driving too. Not all the time, not on daily basis, but maybe let’s say… when the man feels like taking a break, have a drink or two when going together to a party or he is too tired to focus on life, generally speaking.  It helps to have a partner able to take the wheel and drive him HOME safe. Sure… he can call a cab too, but I am pretty sure he won’t have wild, passionate sex with the driver of the taxi afterwards either or hold his hand in bed during the night, as a gesture of tenderness, love and feeling of security of having someone dear right next to him.

A woman like me is not made to be ruled, driven or controlled. A woman like me DOESN’T want to rule, control or drive either… even if the instinct is there and sometimes it tempts her, especially if she feels the man is weak enough and he has no idea how to deal with life issues… a woman like me is made to enjoy life with and right next to her. She can take care of her own shit, but she will expect the same from his side. When needed, of course, being there for each other is critically in order to build a healthy and strong relationship, based on love, trust and respect for each other.

But she doesn’t need you to baby sit her and even less to show her who’s the boss. Cause she will let you drive the car, yes and she will smile at you kind and wild from the right seat where you want her to ALWAYS stay, but right after, with all the risks included she will jump out of the car…

And that… “HONEY”, in my case… it’s a fact! 😊

Loveheimer

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Losing control…

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… in love, in passion and sometimes in life too… the best moments and memories I’ve  lived were when I let myself loose… when I let myself driven by instinct, a feeling that made my mind giving in even if it was completely against the action I was about to do… in the end it always gave up… it had to… I was already in the “waterfall” and it just had to cooperate with my soul’s or body’s masterpiece…

I let myself going with the flow and I had the chance to meet people that transformed my life or on the contrary… I changed their life forever… no way to turn back, to be the one I or them used to be once…

Each time I find myself in “the jungle”, the feeling is amazing… I love the chase, the hunt, the mix of feelings, but now at my almost 35 years old is even more beautiful than ever because now I can recognize the signs… now I don’t struggle too much, and if I do it, I do it for the pleasure of the game…

I love to wait for the real things cause when I find them, I am driving crazy, but in a very nice way… sometimes it takes years for that. It doesn’t happen too often to see something that I like… but when I see it, I just have to have it! I let myself go with the flow and it feels like flying in the water, if that is even possible to imagine… for me it becomes a reality… I float and fly in the same time… I burn inside of pleasure for that man, all I can think about is to become his prey and the passion that comes along makes me innovative, naughty, wild, but patient, kind, but a “bad” woman in the same time… in a word… beautiful…

The lioness hidden in me would suddenly wake up and take the control… the most importantly? The man that has this effect on me inspires me in such a way that others before couldn’t do it and for that I am grateful to him…  for the fire I feel inside, the sparkle, the magic, the game, the kindness and warmth he gives to me, for driving me wild and crazy…

And all I have to do when he comes along is to… lose CONTROL!

Loveheimer 🙂